Day-Before-Thanksgiving Custody Checklist: 12 Last-Minute Fixes for Virginia Parents

Start with your order—then close the gaps Open your current order or agreement and confirm: start/end times, exchange location, who drives, travel/illness rules, and make-up time. If you need a quick refresher, skim Types of Child Custody in Virginia and What Judges Really Look at in Virginia Custody Cases. Your 12 last-minute fixes (copy, paste,…

Last-Minute Holiday Schedule Disputes: Your Virginia Options (Without Blowing Up Thanksgiving)

First, check the order—then act Read your current order or agreement line by line. Confirm: Exact holiday start and end times Exchange location and which parent drives Rules for travel delays or illness Any make-up time clause Spot gaps. Then propose clear fixes in writing. For a quick custody refresher, review What Judges Really Look…

Why an “Aggressive Lawyer” Isn’t Always the Best Choice in Family Law

  The problem with “aggressive” as a strategy Family law touches your kids, your finances, and your future. When a lawyer leads with aggression, you risk higher fees, slower timelines, and scorched-earth tactics that judges dislike. Instead, you need focused advocacy: firm when necessary, solution-oriented whenever possible. For context on what persuades a court, skim…

Does Cheating Affect Spousal Support in Virginia?

The quick answer Yes—adultery can bar permanent spousal support to the spouse who cheated. Virginia law says a court shall not award permanent support to an adulterous spouse unless denying support would cause a manifest injustice based on (1) the parties’ relative fault and (2) their economic circumstances. Virginia Law Want the full spousal support…