With the advent of smartphones, it’s easier than ever before for us to be connected and aware of what’s going on with our friends, family, and loved ones through social media; however, this connection can also come with some downsides.
When navigating the complexity, nuance, and intensity of a divorce case, throwing social media in the mix can have a negative effect. Regardless of if you are talking about the case online or posting seemingly innocent pictures with friends, your social media presence can be used by opposing counsel in divorce proceedings. Additionally, if you have a child or children with your spouse, understanding social media usage dos and don’ts are critical to navigating your divorce case successfully.
In this blog, we’ll examine the importance of limiting social media usage while navigating a divorce, giving you tips on what to do on social during this challenging time.
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How Does Using Social Media Impact My Divorce?
It should go without saying, you shouldn’t publicly shame, blame, or call your soon-to-be ex-spouse names online when divorcing. But what about more seemingly innocent posts or comments?
Just about everything that you post (even things seemingly unrelated to your divorce) could be used against you by your ex’s legal counsel. That can include things like:
- Posted or Tagged Photos: Photos of you that you post yourself or ones that others post of you and tag you in could adversely affect your case. If it appears that you are keeping company with disreputable individuals, go to parties or bars, participate in illicit or illegal activity, or seem to live an inconsistent or unsuitable lifestyle, this can hurt your case – especially if children are a consideration. Your children’s best interests will be taken into account when determining custody and visitation agreements.
- Business and Location Check-ins: Similarly, check-ins to businesses that imply you maintain an unstable lifestyle (bars, clubs, etc.) can affect your case. Also, check-ins could imply positive things about you and your life that could hurt your case. For instance, if you check in at a luxury good store, that could imply you have enough income to pay more in child support or spousal support.
- Comments: Even comments made on other peoples’ posts or photos can be used against you in a potential divorce proceeding.
What To Do On Social Media During a Divorce
At the end of the day, it’s in your best interest to follow the advice of your Manassas family law attorney. But here are some tips to get you started:
- Change your profile to private or consider deactivating your account.
- Remove your ex as a friend and any friends/family/informants you may have as a friend.
- Delete images, posts, comments, and check-ins that could harm your case.
- Let your family know about the divorce and remind them to not post about your ex at all during this time.
- Change your passwords to your accounts, especially if your ex may have access.
- Post pictures of your children, if applicable.
If you need any help with social media use during your divorce, give us a call. Our team of skilled family attorneys can advise you: (703) 755-7343.